I’d Love To Marry A Virgin...
I've always wished to not get married to any woman who's sexually active and most especially has variety of adventurous sexual history. I still haven't changed my stance on this. There's a pressure that comes with being with most past sexual adventurers. It gives them something to compare you with.
There's a subconscious standard in her head..
Oh my ex used to thrust me for 1 hour non stop.
Oh he used to give me head for 50 minutes..
Oh he knew variety of styles..
And when you as a learner thrusts for 20 minutes and cum, she sees you like a weakling, Indomie man..
When you cannot measure up to her past ecstacic adventures, in most cases, you're made to feel incapable, and many ladies cheat because of this; married women.
See, in the right order of things, marriage isn't supposed to be between two sex experts. It's supposed to be between two sex amateurs who'll grow together, and not put pressure on themselves.
You cannot grow if you're compared with a past experience..
And why would she feel you ain't good enough?
Because she has a sexual past!
The memory never leaves!
If she didn't engage in serial sexual adventure, she wouldn't know what it feels like having a big dick pass through her, and even preferring it.
With a Virgin, sex is with less pressure to perform. Just hold yourselves in your innocence and make love instinctively.
As time goes, you both learn together..
Nobody is up there detecting how it's supposed to be. Both are learning.
It's really beautiful..
And the little you can do as a man will be appreciated.
See, a woman will not appreciate your 20 minutes of thrusting if she's experienced 1 hour of thrusting..
You'll always feel frustrated trying to please her because there's a standard, but true sex in marriage is not even about the act of sex but the person involved.
It's not about thrusts, styles, and all that, it's about sharing a part of you with someone you love.
When you're truly having sex, the larger fulfilment comes from the fact that you're wrapped in the arms of the one you love, and not thrusts and all whatnot..
And even if he's not so good. Because there's love, there will be room for learning and patience..
But believe me, many pre-maritally sexually active people are usually impatient. They even write people off based on their first performance. Ask couples, their first sex was never their best sex.
Marriage is just about two people on a journey of learning together, nobody teaches; both are learners..
So it's gonna be disastrous having one feel like they are up there and know how exactly it must be, and you're judged with a past experience they had before marriage. That might be sadly abnormal..
The pressure will be much.
This is one reason why God wants sexual purity before marriage. Because you'll be easily satisfied in marriage if you lack any past sexual history.
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